Replying To All Of Your Comments

So I figured I'd just post this instead of trying to address all of you one by one.

Secretia - First of all, I want to thank you for all of your comments.  Without fail, I know that when I write something, you'll have something to say.  It means alot.  Thank you.  Child support would be good.  I mean, who can't use some extra $$.  I don't get it for the other two, so it would really help out my situation.

Jeff - Yeah, shocker, I know.  Yes, the DNA test was a home one that you do, then mail into the lab.  The first time he did it, his swabs didn't have enough DNA on them and he had to re-do them.  Ok, whatever, you know.  It happens.  I have emailed IdentiGene, who did the test to find out if I am entitled to a copy of the results.  I sure as shit think I should be. 

Anonymous -  I've contacted my lawyer.  I guess I didn't really think about that before I saw your comment.  It sounds like she really doesn't have much in the way of legal recourse, because if she was willing to pay for the test now to find out, she could have paid for it when or before the kid was born to be certain.  I want to take a minute to point out that Noah is a LIAR in the biggest of ways.  Who the hell knows what he has told her.  For all I know, he told her that I was fucking everyone in the hood that month.

Anonymous/Curious - There is NO WAY that he'll submit for another test.  I'd have better luck just having the other guy do it and confirm or deny that way.

Curious - I know nothing changes that, thanks for your words of support.  I like that you use the word fuck fairly often.  That makes me smile.

Josie - Hey, when I say I've got drama, believe it girl!!  And I didn't believe that whole you can get pregnant super easy right after you have a kid thing years ago, which is how I ended up getting pregnant with Gavin 4 months after I had Brandon.  Oops....  Luckily, I took the extra day at the hospital this time around and had all of that taken care of.  If only they would have done it when I was 18 like I asked them to.....  Actually, I'm just kidding about that, if I didn't have Gavin, life would be SOOOOOO BORING. 

I guess to sum all of this up, I'm taking things day by day right now.  We're approaching that time of the month, so I'm incredibly emotional about everything this week.  Poor Kyle.  He's doing his best to deal with me and I commend him for it.  I probably would have walked away if I was him.  Instead, he went out and bought at house and is spending his days working on getting it ready to move in.  Good for him, but that's another post.

I just got in touch with the company that did the test and they're sending me a copy of the report.  I think I'll feel better if I see everything on paper in front of me.  Tara and I have plans to go to happy hour tonight and discuss where I go from here, with regard to the other guy.  We'll see what happens.  Thanks for all of your support my people :)