Wednesday, May 5, 2010

Yeah, I Really Need This

So, I was in the middle of writing an awesome post about the last 7 days of partying that I've had.  I'll post it as soon as I find the damn cable for my camera since I broke a piece off my memory card and it wont fit into my computer anymore. 

What's my problem today?  Apparently I have a stalker and I'm not quite sure what to do about it.  Those of you who are my friend on Facebook will easily pick out who it is.  He comments or likes EVERYTHING I do.  After 9, yes I said 9, inbox messages from him last night with the last one saying "Well bitch, if you won't talk to me, next time I see you I'm going to make you bleed, " I deleted him and sent him a message saying I couldn't deal with that level of crazy and apparently he was under the wrong impression thinking I was his girlfriend or something.

Fucking great.  Just what I need.  This guy sent me a friend request a couple of weeks ago and I accepted because I knew him back in the day.  He's also friends with Nick, so I knew I could use him to get information about the deadbeat dad's whereabouts.  Turns out they're not friends anymore, but he still knew where he lived and gave me a phone number.  Good stuff.  We've been chatting off and on and I really didn't think too much about it.  I have lots of guy friends that I talk to all the time and they don't think I'm their girlfriend, why would this guy think any different?

Saturday night I went and picked him up and he hung out with us up at my sister's bar.  As soon as I met him in person after all these years, I knew there was going to be a problem.  Asked if he needed to take his knife into the bar with him.  Uhh what?  We're not hanging out on the south end, we're going to a nice upscale part of town dude... Plus he brought along a collection of scary movies.  For what?  I have no clue.  I suppose I'm glad I didn't get chopped up and thrown in a trash can Saturday night.

Anyways, that's what kind of dumb shit is going on in my world right now.  Josh saw what he was putting on Facebook and texted me saying he'd stay with me for awhile until all of this dies down, so I guess I'm ok for now.

Have a great hump day people :)

5 comments:

Em said...

Thanks for stopping by and commenting. Us single mom's of kids with deadbeat dads need each others support sometimes! And about this weirdo ~ I'd be totally freaked out if that happened to me! I did have a kind of similar problem, also on facebook, with a guy I knew in high school. I accepted this-now-married guys friend request and then even had the bad judgment to meet him for coffee. That only gave him a completely false idea that I would fool around with him behind his wife's back and he started leaving me "dirty" messages and invites to his house while his wife worked (yeah ~ he was a "stay-at-home" dad. Which only means he is too lazy to work so his wife has to). I ended up completely blocking him and warned all my old high-school friends. Why are guys such creeps?

Tara said...

See, this is exactly why Facebook is the root of all evil! I was doing ok until these kind of creepies started coming around! Thanks for stopping by!!

Cleopatra Jones said...

Wow, why is Facebook so creepy? Actually, why are men so creepy? I hope everything's okay with the stalker situation. I always think I should learn how to defend myself in case I get in some weird stalker situation. Hope you're safe!

Anonymous said...

oh, christ on a cross... see what fucking happens when i don't keep up? goddammit.. now i have to read some fucking fb archives to figure out which weirdo you're talking about..
FML

Tara said...

Cleopatra, I'm ok for now. He appears to have fallen off the face of the earth for a minute.

Curious - i think it's fairly obvious.. Message me if you can't figure it out....